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Pre-Op Sex
2002.06.03
Recently someone posted to a message board a question about what people thought about sex if you're still a pre-op. (That is you being female and having sex with gentic males.) Here was my reply:
"Ode to Men (And Pre-Op Sex)"Seriously, you have to do what's comfortable for you. If you and your partner find creative ways to pleasure your bodies then so be it. Being perverse is relative. Do remember to stay safe---you are not immune to viruses or physical harm.
Men, ah men.
Muscular masculine men.
Tall, well-groomed, clean shaved?
Some are plain @$$h0l3$, but
There are some that we crave.
The thread poster thus asked the question to her that did vex:
"Would you (did you) engage in pre-op sex?"
(And if you don't mind
I'll reply in rhyme.)
Would you, could you in a bar?
Would you, could you in the back of a car?
Maybe on the very first date?
Or maybe would you make him wait?
Would you let him approach you first?
Would you approach him to satisfy your thirst?
And how far would you let him go?
Would you want him to ... um ... know?
A touchy subject I must confess---
it would be good to avoid the mess.
I think it really depends on who you've met
Whether you think he'd be OK with it.
This you learn over some time, right?
I don't see how you can know this in just one night.
Lots of guys are anti-homo
And you don't want them to find out and go postal.
But there are those who see the real you---they are stronger
They realize your pre-op status is only a while longer.
They care about the person inside.
Their sincerity they don't hide.
These people are truly special, rarities indeed.
It may take a while to find one of this breed.
I suppose as long as you don't put yourself in harm's way
You can find such a person one day.
Then there is the other side:
Are you OK being with the guy?
With the piece of flesh betwixt your legs
"Can you really feel like a woman?" the question begs.
Some T-girls find this makes sex unmanageable
Just the image of two genetic males doing the horizontal tango.
Pre-op sex is something that has crossed my mind
Because I too want a relationship at some time.
Guys being guys and our hormones in rage
Sex comes into play at some stage.
I would feel uncomfortable---
Relationships are OK, but sex is another level.
I am not anti-gay, no no
But I would not ever want to take it in the back hole.
And oral sex just isn't that appealing
Because I know too many guys who don't take care in cleaning.
(Eww.... I know that's gross to say
But we're here to talk about the truth, eh?)
So, at least for me,
I would prefer to have sex "naturally".
And that won't happen until surgery's done
So it'll be a while before I feel I can partake in that fun.
There may be a happy medium on which my mate and I can find:
My pants stay on all of the time.
If he wants a hand job
I don't see much wrong giving that.
If he wants to disrobe me to feel me up
I don't mind if he plays under my bra cups.
I think it's wrong to deny yourself your carnal instincts
But there are certain lines to be drawn methinks.
And he'll have to understand to respect this
Otherwise he's not going to get more than a kiss.
I would close this note by saying
It depends on the game you're playing.
I would make sure that your partner at the time
Knows where you draw the line.
Don't let the situation roll out of control
Because what he might do you don't know.
The point of transition is to survive
So that you can lead a fruitful life.
Be careful, be wary,
At all times your wits you should carry.
If you're getting a strange vibe,
Leave right then and try again another night...
-- Amber
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