Amberspace: Information resources for transsexual (TS) and
transgendered (TG) persons. Follow the journey of Amber,
a post-transition MTF TS.
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I happen to live in one of the most expensive places in the world
I am told. Here it is not unusual for the typical engineer to
command a 6-figure salary nor a medium-sized condominium to sell
for $1.1 million. I watch my pennies, but I know that because of
my salary I can afford to do things like electrolysis, therapy,
and surgeries after saving up for a few months and being conservative
with everything else. Let's contrast this with a girl I just
met.
She lives in a hole of a town out in the middle of nowhere. I'm told
it's about 50,000 residents, no lakes anywhere, and the nearest major
city is about an hour away. The highest-paying jobs in town earn
about $8/hour---median wages are around $6/hour. Her house cost her
$10,000 and with improvements she's done she said she'll be able to
sell it for maybe $25,000. She says that to pay for surgeries she'll
sell her house.
Okay, wait a minute. Sell her house? $25,000?!!! If I
had a mediocre house around here and I sold it, it would probably go
for about $410,000. What's that I smell? It's the stench of
a serious disparity of standards of living.
We all know that transition is expensive, but to cost someone to sell
their house? Something has to be wrong here. I mean, surgeons are
billing patients easily at $10,000, $25,000, $50,000; how can some
people afford this? It just isn't fair.
It's at times like these I feel really lucky to be living in an area
where the standard of living is very high cost because it makes buying
things in other places (or even countries) much less expensive in
relative ratios to what money I pull in. At the same time it makes me
disconcerted that there are people, who are in no way poor, who cannot
afford the benefits of medical technology because they have no
spending power.
I feel sorry for my friend that she has to endure this. She seems
like a smart girl but out of circumstance she ended up basically
starting her life over in a tiny town. So now she is in a conservative
environment, almost no transgendered help, and weak spending power.
She had to drive out the 1,500 miles to the Bay Area to get procedures
done and she said she was picking campgrounds and cheapo hotels because
that's what she can afford, and really she's just pushing herself
farther into debt.
I'm not sure there is a solution to this problem. I mean, inequalities
exist in every locale and it'll never be possible to curb inflation in
one area versus another. But it would be nice to get some kind of a
tiered medical procedure structure so that people in certain areas of
the country (or world) can pay up to a maximum of some percentage of
their salary and the government would help subsidize the rest. I do
not want to imply that people get a free ride. I want to make this
"land of opportunity" be more like a "land of equal opportunity". OK,
this is getting really idealistic.