Amberspace: Information resources for transsexual (TS) and
transgendered (TG) persons. Follow the journey of Amber,
a post-transition MTF TS.
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Longer essay-like writings usually centered around a single theme.
The cast of characters
These are a number of people in this saga:
Andrew:
Met through Jen, works in tech support, and knew me just before
I went full-time.
Angela:
Met through Steve, I rarely see her, and she came out as
lesbian not too long ago.
Brenda:
Friend living in Europe who I mainly talk to over IM but did spend
a vacation with.
Calpernia:
TS whose boyfriend was murdered, acted in the subsequent movie,
active in the TG community.
Calvin:
My lil' brother...who actually is much taller and bigger than
I. We don't talk much but he's been generally supportive.
Cathy:
On-line friend, ex-football player who makes an attractive
svelte woman, "plays hard" she says.
Charlene:
Old schoolmate who loves fast cars and good wine.
Cheryl:
Highschool friend I finally came out to and has been really
cool.
Christian:
Met through Jen's circle of friends, doesn't know about my past,
seems to have a thing for me.
Cristy:
Met online and later in person when she came out to my
area for an orchiectomy. I was there for her SRS in 2003
and she might be there for mine if she can afford the travel.
Emily:
Runs a popular message board for younger trans.
Ethan:
Friend of Sylvia's I met only a couple of times, likes his SLK.
Frederick:
Buddy from college who got married in late 2003, was the first
friend I told not including my then-girlfriend Kristina.
Gwen:
Has her own popular web site, writes articles about transgender
topics, and was an organizer of the Day of Rememberance events.
Heather:
College friend married to Raj, used to be an officer with me in the
same cultural club.
Holden:
Friend I met through doing anime conventions way back when.
Jacky:
College friend who was in the same major.
Jamie:
Raymond's wife, somewhat reserved, prefers to speak Taiwanese.
Jean:
Laura's friend from college that went shopping one time with
Laura, Lea, and I. She's never met my boy self but knows of it.
Jen:
Met in a support group in 2001 and is probably one of my closest
TS friends, helped me arrange housing with one of her friends
just before I went full-time.
Karl:
Hangs around Mary a lot, met him through Steve.
Kayla:
Sister of Kira.
Kelly:
Seth's wife, fun bubbly personality, very accepting of me.
Kenneth:
College friend who loves his Mac and seems to never run out of
energy.
Kim:
Mark's wife, fantastic singing voice.
Kira:
Knew her in college but didn't get close until more recently,
good friend of Steve and Kyle's.
Kristen:
A TS who moved up into The City who I see from time to time,
helped me in the very beginning with putting together girl's
clothes.
Kristina:
My last girlfriend in our 5.5 year relationship, slowly coming
to terms with me.
Kyle:
Old college buddy who is the master chef, makes a great teacher,
boundless energy and smiles.
Laura:
Sister of Lea, first commented "gee, that guy has nice nails"
even though all they were was cut neatly short.
Lea:
One of Steve's good friends who loves shopping and helped me
out just before I went full-time.
Marianne:
Met at a TG party many summers back, loves to drive rally cars and
does home video editing.
Marissa:
College friend who's really headstrong and pals with Kristina.
Mark:
College buddy who is totally into music making and is a pretty
good programmer.
Marla:
Sometimes-friend sometimes-girlfriend of Ryan, doesn't know my past.
Mary:
Good friend of Lea and Steve's who chums with Karl.
Melinda:
College friend who's used to the good life.
Natalie:
Colleague who was initially iffy about my transition on the job but
came around pretty quickly.
Pam:
Friend I met while I was going to therapy who moved out to the
boonies.
Pam (2):
College friend who knows Steve, Kyle, and Kira really well.
Pei:
Old high-school buddy and ex-girlfriend of a 2-year relationship,
we still talk to each other, she's a darned good comic book artist.
Raj:
Husband of Heather.
Raymond:
Brother of Kelly.
Rod:
Good college buddy who was very supportive of my transition,
especially loves fighting games like SNK and Street Fighter.
Ryan:
A guy I met through Jen's group of friends, does not know of my
past, and happens to have the exact same pair of eyeglasses.
Sam:
My non-gay hairdresser introduced to me by Annie, Sarah, and Jen.
Sarah:
Close friend of Jen and Andrew's, works as an engineer and
plays most of the same musical instruments as me. We're so
different and yet share a lot of parallels.
Seth:
College buddy, loves anime and computers, former roommate for 5 years,
has had a hard time with my transition.
Stacey:
Jen's mom.
Steven:
College buddy, also loves anime and computers, former roomate for 5
years, really supportive of my transition, sorta likes me.
Sylvia:
Met through Emily's message board, talked in person a couple times.
Tamara:
Angela's girlfriend.
Terry:
Met through Jen's circle of friends, likes anime, roommate of Andrew.
Tina:
Met through Steve, works for the same company.
Ursula:
My roomie while I went full-time.
Victor:
Husband of Kayla.
Wayne:
College buddy, anime afficionado, rarely see him since he works in a
city 30 minutes away.